This is the best advice I've received as a coach from my mentor.
"Don't accept your client's perception of the world, challenge their narratives."
This counter-intuitive approach is transformative. Let's explore why:
1️⃣ Perception vs. Reality:
Client: "This is a spiral 🌀 like my life."
Reality: They're caught in their perception, mistaking it for the truth.
👉 Your coaching mission? Challenge this perception. Look again.
(Spoiler alert: this is not a spiral, but a series of circles)
2️⃣ Skepticism as a Tool:
Skepticism in coaching isn't disbelief but a deeper exploration.
👉 Ask: "What makes you think it's a spiral?" Encourage them to follow the lines they see. Often, they'll discover a new shape.
3️⃣ Objective Observation:
As coaches, we observe from outside our clients' perception bubble.
👉 Our role is to provide a fresh, objective viewpoint that questions their subjective truths.
4️⃣ The Bottom Line:
Don't just accept your client's narrative and beliefs. Challenge them. Go deeper. Transform perceived spirals into tangible circles.
👉 This is how you foster real, lasting change.
🌀 Do you find this metaphor insightful?
I am Geraldine GAUTHIER founder of GoMasterCoach.
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